Report on the Invited Talk on “Healthy Boy - Girl Relationship”

An invited talk on “Healthy Boy–Girl Relationship” was organized by Dr. Mary Jenif, Dean of Women Students, in association with Mrs. Elavarasi, Associate Dean of Women Students. The programme was held on 15 July 2026 at 10:30 a.m. in Mother Teresa Hall for all Shift II first-year girl students. The programme commenced with a felicitating address by Rev. Dr. Theophil Anand SDB, Additional Principal. Dr. G. Devi, Head, Department of Commerce (UG), honoured the resource person with a shawl, and Dr. Savitha, Vice Principal, presented a book as a token of appreciation.

The resource person, Ms. Latha Munuswamy, delivered an insightful and interactive session on maintaining healthy relationships during adolescence. She explained that adolescence is a stage of emotional development, during which emotions often influence decisions more strongly than rational thought. She also spoke about the menstrual cycle and noted that rational thinking develops more fully with maturity.

Ms. Latha discussed the various types of relationships, including family, friendship, romantic, and professional relationships, and emphasized the importance of understanding the boundaries and responsibilities associated with each. She clearly explained the distinction between attraction and true love and addressed the common misconception of infatuation, helping students understand that infatuation should not be mistaken for genuine love. The session also focused on toxic relationships, explaining why individuals may enter such relationships due to factors such as low self-esteem, peer pressure, emotional baggage, and the fear of being different. She highlighted the warning signs of unhealthy relationships and stressed that toxic relationships often isolate individuals from their family and friends. The resource person encouraged students to choose their life partners wisely and shared practical strategies for leaving unhealthy relationships. She reminded students that learning to say “No” is essential and that one does not always need to provide explanations, excuses, or apologies when setting healthy boundaries. She also emphasized that parents are the only people who willingly sacrifice their dreams to build their children’s future and encouraged students to value and appreciate their parents’ unconditional love.

At the conclusion of the programme, Dr. G. Devi addressed the students and provided general instructions concerning the college dress code, the appropriate use of mobile phones, and the code of conduct to be observed within the campus. She emphasized the importance of maintaining

discipline, decorum, and responsible behaviour as essential attributes of student life. The session concluded on a positive and meaningful note, equipping the students with a deeper understanding of healthy relationships, self-respect, emotional well-being, and responsible decision-making.